God's Maths in Marriage Relationship 2
- Kingdom Elect
- Apr 26
- 3 min read
In a previous God’s maths in marriage relationship blog post, we discovered that God’s maths in dating and marriage relationships is multiplication instead of addition.
Only the Almighty God can make us whole, not any human being or anything else.
Within a marriage, both the husband and the wife have to remain whole in Christ for the outcome of their union to be 'one' flesh. Otherwise, they consume each other and make the union a broken flesh.
As we have clarified the misconception that a marriage relationship is not addition but multiplication, what kind of multiplication principles can we apply to gain insights into the mystery of marriage?
Here are some of the fundamental rules of multiplication:
'A positive integer' x 'a positive integer' = positive outcome
(e.g. 1 x 1 = 1)
'A negative integer' x 'a negative integer' = positive outcome
(e.g. -1 x -1 = 1)
'A positive integer' x 'a negative integer' = negative outcome
(e.g. 1 x -1 = -1)
“Can two people walk together without agreeing on the direction?” - Amos 3:3 (NLT)
The Bible tells us two people cannot walk together unless they agree on the direction.
From the mathematical multiplication principle, we know that as long as the signs or directions of the integers being multiplied are the same, the outcome will be positive.
When the signs or directions of the integers being multiplied are different, they produce a negative outcome.
Walking in agreement is essential in a marriage covenant.
The mainstream society treated marriage as addition math. Such misconceptions easily mislead our subconscious mind to assume that if one's opinion towards a matter is stronger, they can dominate or win over the other. That's a trap of the enemy.
“And if a kingdom be divided against itself, that kingdom cannot stand. And if a house be divided against itself, that house cannot stand.” - Mark 3:24-25 (KJV)
Think about a scale from -10 to 10:
-10 is strongly disagree on a matter; 10 is strongly agree.
Suppose either the husband or the wife is at level 9 agreeing on a matter, while the other is at negative 1 (slightly disagreeing) towards the matter.
Addition math says: 9 + (-1) = 8.
Cool! So the two people sum up, and they agree on the matter... Really? Can the one with the stronger opinion really cover up or compensate for the slight disagreement?
Remember, God designed marriage to be multiplication.
The equation for this case is actually: 9 × (-1) = -9.
The slight disagreement multiplies and produces a negative outcome.
It's not about who has a louder voice to dominate the other.
It's about understanding, forbearance, mutual submission, and respect, to walk in agreement.
To love one another, as God has commanded us.
"Again I say unto you, That if two of you shall agree on earth as touching any thing that they shall ask, it shall be done for them of my Father which is in heaven." - Matthew 18:19 (KJV)
It's very powerful when we walk in agreement.
God promised that if two people come together in agreement and ask for anything according to His will, it shall be done for them.
Marriage covenant is holy and it reflects the glory of God. The union joined by God is powerful and good in His sight. That's why the enemy is trying so hard to cause division in marriage.
"And if one prevail against him, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken." - Ecclesiastes 4:12 (KJV)
A Christ-centred marriage is like a threefold cord.
Jesus Christ is our firm foundation. He is the priority and the core of all areas of our lives. Focus on seeking God and His righteousness.
Let the love of God fill and overflow in us, empowering us to love Him back, as well as all around us.
Rather than saying I'm right, say "God is right!"
Always walk in agreement with God!
When both the husband and the wife agree with God, naturally we agree with each other.
God is our unity!
God bless you, my brothers and sisters.
Let's Pray Together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
Thank you for your love, mercy and faithfulness.
We are sorry for being stiff-necked and thinking we are right.
We repent of our pride and ignorance.
Lord, you are right!
Please soften our hearts.
May your love fill and overflow us, empowering us to love you and all around us.
Teach us and align us with your will.
Lord Jesus, may you be the centre of our marriage
In Jesus' name we have prayed.
Amen.